Gayographic recently sat down with Enwei Lien and Alex Chen of the Opposite House and the frontmen for one of the most popular gay nights in Beijing at Mesh.
Brief Introduction:
Enwei Lien, Taiwan
Director of Guest Experience
Often mistaken for Alex, Enwei one of the main frontman of the hotel. Together with his team, he’s concierge, confidante, planner and problem solver for visitors to Beijing. Formerly he was at the Regent in Beijing and before that The Mark New York.
Alex Chen, USA
Director of Sales
Working with embassies, corporations and fashion houses, Alex and his team work to accommodate their accommodation needs. Previously, he was with Warner China Film and The Food Network in Los Angeles.
1. The Opposite House is arguably one of the hippest hotels in town; it is also one of the gayest. Why do you think so many gay visitors who come to Beijing choose to stay at the Opposite House?
A: We believe that the gay community always has a pulse on what’s hot, different and fresh – whether that’s in fashion, design, architecture or hospitality; that’s the initial hook. Also, gay travelers want to be welcomed and don’t want to feel uncomfortable requesting a king size bed when checking in with a partner. We think that our design, location and fashionability brings them in, but after staying with us, our service, chill attitude and no judgment keeps them coming back.
2. Mesh has one of the longest running gay nights in Beijing. What is the secret to keeping the extremely fickle Beijing gay community coming back every Thursday?
A: Mesh’s success surprised us as well, as so many came out (so to speak) to our Thursday night. We were against commercializing it and giving it a name and a theme. Instead we wanted it to grow organically. The gay community is fickle and is always on the lookout for new venues, it’s natural and fun. But as corny as it is, having a place where people know your name and that’s familiar and comfortable is what people are looking for. The quality drinks are also pretty tasty and pack a punch.
3. We also hear that Mesh will be offering a summer outdoor area once the weather turns warmer. Is this true?
A: This is one of the most exciting developments for Mesh and The Opposite House this year. We’re going to extend out into the current bamboo garden with decking and furniture. Also, we’ll introduce a refreshing summer drink menu for the longer days ahead.
4. Are there any other interesting happenings that we can expect at the Opposite House? Bei has reopened?
Yes! Bei has re-opened. It’s slightly bigger and yet feels more intimate. The menu is the same with tasting menus starting at RMB 288. Also, there’s an introductory 20% off special until the end of March!








