
Over the weekend, after the hangover from the wild night at Tun subsided, we all learned of the passing of the venerable and strong Bea Arthur. Your correspondent remembers watching every week, as a little budding homo, episodes of The Golden Girls, a pastime, which continued into university when the show was syndicated to Lifetime. It leaves little room to wonder why she was such an icon for the LGBT community: she was a very strong and witty woman who was always breaking barriers throughout her career and varied roles. Her role of Dorothy on The Golden Girls could not have been more perfect role since it allowed her to portray her witty and catty personality as her adopted character. That show, with its excellent cast and chemistry between the four leading ladies, help set the stage for similar shows involving an all-female cast such as Sex and the City. I think it is time I dust off my DVDs and revisit the gals back in Miami and have a few more laughs with a now lost icon. We’ll miss you Bea; you truly were a pal and a confidant.




As of late, Thursday nights at Mesh have become THE place to see and be seen by the pink socialites of the Capital. Much less aggressive than Destination, its weekly gay night has been a runaway success, especially with the two for one drink specials until 11pm. As of this week, a new policy change has lowered the happiness level of happy hour by two full hours landing at the much less merry 9pm. Your correspondent did a little sleuthing while drinking his one and only drink for the evening and heard from a few patrons that management claims gay night was becoming overrun with prostitutes and straight men who were crashing the sausage party for cheap drinks. The former, as you would expect, would be the ever present money boys, but, in fact, they were female hookers, ladies of the night, supposedly servicing the straight men who had little other choice of finding an after hours partner unless they really didn’t mind same-sex after hours company. Management’s strategy to address this most awful situation was to limit happy hour to 9pm in hopes of driving those straight boys and their hired help back to Kai Club. It waits to be seen if this plan backfires since our kind is a fickle lot who, in the end, may choose an alternative new and fresh instead of Mesh.
Look out Gayjingers! Queer Comrades is BACK on April 25th at TUN Bar (Sanlitun) with drag shows and the ever gay friendly band Ziyo. Hopefully, another thrilling launch episode will blow us away.








